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Sep 1998

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Strictly Adult 21+

Bondage/Discipline/Fetish

STRICTLY ADULT 21+

Alternative lifestyle personals, chatrooms, and instant messaging.

LOTS of active listings world wide. Free Trial available, but full membership opens up a much wider choice of options and larger photos. Nothing is left to the imagination in this site, so before you take the plunge be sure you are ready for almost anything.

If you are not faint of heart, AND you are looking for some real spice in life (very hot peppers), then this IS the place to be.

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CHAT ROOMS GALORE:

Pick a room by geographic region or by topic of interest. If you're new, the Lobby is a great place to get started. There's someone waiting to meet you right now, so jump in and join the festivities!

Topical Rooms

	Lobby This is a welcome chat area for members to come on in and get to know each other!
	Cybersex Room In the mood for some cyber-nookie? This is the place.
	Webcam Fun Room Have fun with your webcam and watch others. Turn on your webcam and join in
	Newbie Room For beginners to the ALT lifestyle who would like help/advice. Be gentle.
	Veteran's Room This is the place where people who’ve seen the ropes come to share their experience.
	BBW Room For people who think big, love big, want big.
	Coven's Gathering Join us in the astral moonlight; celebrate and share your favorite rituals with the magical community.
	Goth Room Welcome to the underworld -- dark, lunar, industrial, crepuscular. Meet others into the Goth Lifestyle.
	PAIN ONLY Room Pain -- Giving it, taking it, breaking its threshold.
	Dungeon The Dungeon is our exclusive chat room for gold and silver members.
	Leather Room If you like the scent and feel of leather, or the art of wielding it; you belong in the leather room.
	Rubber Room In this room people share a fondness for the feel, smell, taste, look of rubber/latex. Squeeze on in.
	Gallery Have a photo or two to share? Come on in.
	DOM/ME Room The DOM/ME room is for sharing the secrets of the trade with other Doms.
	sub Room This room is a safe place for subs to discuss their needs and fantasies. Switches should leave their other hats off in the room.
	Polyamory Room Consensual, responsible non-monogamy. You CAN love more than one person at the same time!
	Steel Mill The Steel Mill is our "male only" chat room, for men to find like-minded male partners.
	Circle The Circle is our "female only" chat room, for women to find like-minded female partners.
	Clean Room The Clean Room is for people who want to chat without the overhead of cybersex. Please keep it fun for all!
	Gender eXchange Room The Gender eXchange Room provides a forum for TS/TV/TG - or anyone who's interested in non-rigid gender labels.
	Couples Cage The Couples Cage is where you can push the edge with other kinky couples!
	Master and Slave Room Submit or take the control...
	Extreme Room When no other room goes far enough!!
	Gorean Room Masters, slaves, defenders of the Homestone; this is your world.

Where Should You Go On The First Date?

One of the most frequently asked questions in the history of dating (with the exception of the caveman who was a firm believer in kidnapping and always took his date to a filthy cave) is where should one go on a first date. For starters, there are several places you shouldn't even think about going on a first date. They are listed below in order of "you'll die alone" rankings.

1) Never go to your parent's house, especially if you still live there, on a first date. It says you're beyond desperate.

2) When you promise someone a good time, it does not mean a luxury chicken box dinner in your out of the way motel. This proves that you're stupid and freaky.

3) A movie as a first date? When exactly are you supposed to get to know the other person, during the three previews before the movie? This would not be a good call. If you want to watch a movie, watch it at home alone now or save it when the two of you have a reached a comfortable snuggle level.

Now that you know where not to go on a first date, let's discuss a few places where you might choose to go. Here are 4 great places for a first date.

1) A museum is an excellent location for a first date, and they're generally inexpensive. By chance, if neither your nor your date are history or art lovers, the exhibit will inspire you to talk about something even if it's nothing but your dislike of museums. Most museums usually have cafes or are located near restaurants so dining should not be a problem either.

2) A casual restaurant or a coffee house is also a comfortable first date environment. Be sure and keep your date's preferences in mind when selecting a place. There is nothing more itchy than going for dinner at a seafood restaurant when you're allergic to seafood.

3) A park is a perfect avenue for a first outing. Walks that turn into picnics are laid back affairs where two people can feel comfortable out in the open. This is also a great opportunity to showcase your peanut butter and jelly sandwich making skills.

4) Outdoor concerts also offer another possibility for pleasant initial dates. Two people can talk in a relaxed atmosphere, and the outdoor arena lends itself to comfortable unrestrictive clothing, which in itself will take some of the dating pressure off each of you.

One last note. No matter where you go on a first date, always exercise common sense by meeting in public and never doing anything which makes you uncomfortable. Keep yourself safe so you can enjoy all that life has to offer.

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